Showing posts with label confrontations. Show all posts
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Friday, June 5, 2020

(06/05/2020) Elephant In The Room?




Today, focus is on “the elephant in the room,” the critical issues, opportunities, and problems that are ignored, neglected and suppressed as if they do not exist at a time when public outcries are being made. The failure of problem-solving efforts to respond to the elephant in the room increases stumbling blocks that include rush-to-judgment behavior, exaggerated pride, emotional imbalance, self-promotion, silence where there should be dialogue, stubbornness, and “Im right when Im wrong, because...”. Rather than evading accountability, dodging duty, and selective blindness, there must be commitment to continuing practical efforts that will build lasting solutions. Healthy change will come when the people of our country realize that, right now, there are increased possibilities for benefit and good. All must see with new eyes and truly godly vision when up against the recurring issues and ungodly problems of racism in America, police violence, the goals and outcomes for protest events, and the fruit (take-away) that should come by leadership from those in the streets as well as from elected officials. Where the honest intent of everyone involved is to improve the quality of life, and share the benefits and privileges of working and keeping our homes within the U.S., the first response to arrest confrontations and similar outrages should be in providing and recording a public statement of agreement that encourages attitudes and expressions that support the lawful and thoughtful process that must be used to achieve justice while increasing understanding. A form that peaceful protest might assume that would give voice to the community at large and allow citizens to go on record would be a kind of petition or pledge to carefully investigate and pursue full disclosure of questionable, criminal and unlawful acts by public servants. Our law does not condone condemnation and punishment before the hearing of evidence and trial: those who administer the law also must minister discipline, self-control, and restraint. Consider again John 18: 19-24, King James Version (KJV): 19 The high priest then asked Jesus of his disciples, and of his doctrine. 20 Jesus answered him, I spake openly to the world; I ever taught in the synagogue, and in the temple, whither the Jews always resort; and in secret have I said nothing. 21 Why askest thou me? ask them which heard me, what I have said unto them: behold, they know what I said. 22 And when he had thus spoken, one of the officers which stood by struck Jesus with the palm of his hand, saying, Answerest thou the high priest so? 23 Jesus answered him, If I have spoken evil, bear witness of the evil: but if well, why smitest thou me? 24 Now Annas had sent him bound unto Caiaphas the high priest.



THE GOLDEN ARROW: Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. (Matthew 22: 35-40, KJV)



THE DOUBLE DAGGER: The Meaning Of “Persecution” (02/12/2020); White People Becoming Atheists? (10/03/2019); Catholic and Protestant Bibles? (10/11/2018); Will There Be Diversity? (10/22/2017); No Less GODs Creation (12/01/2016); Diversity and Divine Purpose (08/28/2016); Can Christians Be Racists? (07/25/2016); The Provision Against Racists? (01/19/2016)



While we are yet in a season of divine grace, Christian believers are to speak up and call attention to the elephant in the room, even where “the room” may be the pulpit, the Internet, the prayer chamber, the throne room, or the consecrated Sanctuary. Where earthly challenges, difficulties, and formidable obstacles are not to be downplayed or overlooked, neither are simple and godly solutions to be despised, refused, and underestimated:

(1.) There is a need for a process that will not employ violence where public expressions of protest may be openly presented, recorded, and made accessible for public exchange and response. More than simply making statements of anger, fear, frustration, and other feelings, all will be welcome to offer useful conclusions and specific recommendations that can be further researched and serve as the beginning of action plans, goals for growth, and targets for development.

(2.) Late one night, the President of the United States of America chose to walk over to a nearby church in his home neighborhood. It could not be assumed that the President would be safe to walk within his own familiar area. There were no believers on look-out to see the presidential party approaching. No one was there charged to watch and pray or to greet the President at his coming. There was no one immediately available to serve as a crisis counselor, a comforter, a prayer partner, or an emergency spiritual adviser. Even so, those “looking for an occasion” and hiding to attack came out to condemn the President for lacking and not applying the sacred knowledge found in the Bible, and they have yet to provide an authentic standard for the use of the Scriptures by those in our Nations public offices and worship congregations.

(3.) Where Christ prayed, Father forgive them, they know not what they do, many have come forward to criticize the President (who, like a drowning man, can be seen clutching at straws). Those who acknowledge his need and that of those around him will be making efforts (in private as well as public displays) to comfort, edify, and reinforce the faith and resolve of those in the Oval Office.

(4.) There is a need for a process where, when a police officer feels that his or her actions have initiated a pattern of arrest confrontation, (ABCDEFG, we know XYZ is coming) they should be free to negotiate a handshake agreement with the suspect that will avoid escalation of conflict and disagreement. There can be an offer to share assistance by telephone contact with an attorney, police officials, a member of the city council, or even, an emergency conference call with the Mayor. Someone trusted by all must clarify for them the rights of the many involved parties, the lawful process, and their questions on what they are to do next.

(5.) An Archbishop of the Anglican Church (UK) with whom I have been sharing prayer and contemplation published the following tweet on June 2, 2020 that continues to advance subtlety and error as harmless and unintended (i.e., as therefore innocent and acceptable): @JustinWelby Jun 2 I pray that those of us who are white Christians repent of our own prejudices, and do the urgent work of becoming better allies to our brothers and sisters of colour.
9:11 AM · Jun 2, 2020·Twitter for iPhone My response was: @JustinWelby The battle is for the mind; and this is the gulf between us: There are no white Christians; there are no black Christians; there are only developing and mature Christians. Saying this another way, Ephesians 4: 4-6 (KJV): 4 There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling; 5 One Lord, one faith, one baptism, 6 One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.

There is far more that should be said, correctly examined, and spiritually apprehended. (For example, from the music ministry of John Michael and Terry Talbot (6.) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4TP81Uy72Q.) Even so, I trust this fragment will be useful. Be it unto you according to your faith.


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Friday, September 27, 2013

(09/27/2013) A Lid on Love?

Acceptance, rejection and love among family are the focus, today.  Also, there is more on church as a brand, and what Christians may speak against other believers.  A writer posting at “Yahoo! Answers UK & Ireland” with the ID “ewan_whose_army” (Level 2 with 252 points, a member since 25 August 2013) shared the following:


Why do people let religion get inbetween themselves and those they should love?

Such as in those parents who kick their kids onto the streets if they turn out gay or don't conform to whatever their religion requires.


THE BATTLE AXE:  On Marketing Church, and Speaking by Occasion (09/26/2013)—The ministry of Jesus Christ that must appear through the life and substance of each Christian believer often is described as heavy with conflict and self-contradiction.  After all, the believer is to condemn sin, yet love and be reconciled to the sinner.  The believer must exist using carnal, material, and social devices, yet be totally in service as a spiritual being and an instrument of divinity.  The believer must go out to the world, yet remain sanctified, set apart and unspotted.  Rightly understood, the church is a new creation, and its process of truth is intrapersonal, not interpersonal.  All necessary balance, flexibility, fullness and stability, are achieved through operations of the Spirit from GOD.  Through the Spirit of Truth (also called the Holy Ghost, the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Prophecy) the believer is a spokesperson for GOD having authority to comfort, edify, and exhort—not to accuse, condemn, label others, make merchandise of the gifts from GOD, or slander.  As those accountable and charged with duties of leadership, bishops, elders and others may use admonition, sharpness and warning within their congregations, and for the benefit to their faith community.  However, these may not rely upon competitiveness, peer pressure, and the products of emotional, mental and psychological states.  Spirit content from Christ replaces so-called critical thinking, logic, and reason.  Inseparable aspects of divine person are in effect such as faith, holiness, joy, longsuffering, love, righteousness, truth, wisdom, and wrath against sin.  Believers are to be alert and vigilant exercising restraint upon self-will, and discerning the difference between divine doctrine and personal opinion the same way they are to thoughtfully recognize the intent and motives from public statements about and against the church, and Jesus Christ as its head.  (See Galatians 5:  14-16 and 2nd Timothy 2:  14-16, Colossians 2:  1-9, KJV.)


THE GOLDEN ARROW:  This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,  Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:  Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.  But ye have not so learned Christ;  If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus:  That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;  And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;  And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.  Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour:  for we are members one of another.  Be ye angry, and sin not:  let not the sun go down upon your wrath:  Neither give place to the devil.  Let him that stole steal no more:  but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.  Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.  And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.  Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:  And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.  (Ephesians 4:  17-32, KJV)


THE DOUBLE DAGGER:  Desire for Love? (07/05/2013); Feeling Loved By GOD? (06/16/2013); To Find a True Christian? (06/17/2013); A Family Affair? (04/01/2013); Emotional Appeal? (04/02/2013); The Love of GOD (03/03/2013); The Faith of Ones Parents? (11/18/2012); Reading Only The Red Part (11/19/2012); Love in Christ (10/23/2012); Escape from Racism? (10/24/2012); Family and Romance (10/13/2012); Why Courage? (10/14/2012)


Here are a few points Christian believers a challenged to consider and keep in mind:

(1.)  Intimate relationships and the expression of love require special levels of balance, discipline, order, restraint, stability, and structure.  Created beings and living creatures may be driven by appetite (e.g., hunger, thirst, sexual cravings), sensation (e.g., hearing, seeing, tasting, touching) and mind (e.g., fantasy, imagination, instinct, memory), we say, Flesh.  We also may be driven by spirit beings that oppose GOD (we say, the Devil), just as we may be under the influence of GOD.  Without being grounded and rooted, we self-destruct.  The aspects that are carnal, material, psychological, and social describe what may be called an animal nature for mankind.  To correctly experience the divine aspects of who we are, humans may not center their experience in a “rush”, “running on adrenalin,” or emotional and psychological extremes.

(2.)  Accountability, duty, and the pressures from specific goals necessarily generate barriers, limits, obstacles and silence among and within family relationships.  Often, these features seem to work like land mines, hidden and invisible weapons that distort and twist everything out of proportion.  The unspoken agreements that must be in place for any family to exist includes continually showing acceptance, acknowledgment, respect and trust.  Only by acts of kindness, dialog, giving, talking things out, and unselfishness that brings the hidden elements into clear view do the many different personalities of a family become an unbreakable unit.  Unfortunately, the hidden features also include dirt, filth and grime, the elements that otherwise appear through attacks, conflict and confrontation.

There is far more to be said, correctly applied, and spiritually understood.  For example, (3.)  Among Christians, some family members assume that others in the home and those of the extended family are under obligation to accept verbal abuse, denials of legitimate authority, disgrace, dishonor, insults, interference, opposition, and shame because all believers want to display “unconditional love.”  Those in error presume they know, take it for granted that they themselves have correctly answered, and repeatedly jump to conclusions about the feelings, needs and understandings of others.  Correction through Jesus Christ has shown us that the intent of divine acceptance and forgiveness through the family are the encouragement and support of sacrificial change (for the sake of others) that comes by growth, new learning, and where necessary “new birth”, the establishment of a new and godly spirit.  Even so, I trust this fragment will be useful.  Be it unto you according to your faith.


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